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# Advice

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Dear Fifi: What's the f**king point?
Dear Fifi is’s resident advice columnist. Every Tuesday, she tries to help with one of your problems.
Wales boss Giggs tells Bale to stay at Real Madrid and win trophies
The star’s international manager believes that he should stay put amid interest from Man United.
Dear Fifi: How do I become more confident talking to the opposite sex?
A post Bank Holiday Tuesday – truly the most Tuesday kind of Tuesday there is.
Dear Fifi: Is it weird to be single at 35?
Dearest darling Fifi.
Dear Fifi: How do you deal with the anxiety of social media?
The snow is gone, but you still have Dear Fifi’s cold heart to cling to.
'It goes beyond money': How to ask for a pay rise AND get your boss to agree
It’s the universal question. So what’s the best way to tackle it?
AC Milan's teenage 'keeper told to leave by his agent amid interest from Barca
Gianluigi Donnarumma has been linked with a move away from the club.
Dear Fifi: How do I get my arse in gear after college?
Dear Fifi! Dear Fifi! Dear Fifi!
The most common foods we throw out and how to keep them fresher for longer
Making sure to correctly store and prepare our food means that when life gets in the way, our food can get another chance, writes Odile Le Bolloch.
Expert advice on what to say to a friend or colleague who is recently bereaved
There are a number of things that we can do that can make a difference, writes Breffni McGuinness from the Irish Hospice Foundation.
Dear Fifi: It's quickfire questions!
Dear Fifi: I'm 26 years old and have never been on a date or had a relationship
Tuesday is the worst day of the week, except for Dear Fifi. A bold claim, but I’m making it.
Three steps parents can take to protect their children online
The more you make conversation about the internet the norm, the more insight you will get into your child’s online world, writes Ger Brick.
Ryan Giggs highlights Paul Pogba's 'best' position
The ex-Man Utd star is confident Jose Mourinho’s men can compete for the league title next season.
Dear Fifi: Do I have a responsibility to help my boyfriend to come out?
*to the tune of Dear Prudence* Dear Foofers.
Need to organise your home? The three Ls are the secret to finding time to declutter
‘Writing lists lightens the mental load’, according to professional organiser Sarah Reynolds.
'Never query the salary': How to nail a job interview by asking all the right questions
We spoke to career experts to find out how to be the best job candidate possible.
Dear Fifi: Do I have a moral obligation to expose my friend's affair?
Tuesday is Dear Fifi day. That’s today!
Need a change in your career? Six things to do before you tell your boss
Career performance coach Jane Downes has some strategies to help you move your career forward in 2018.
Dear Fifi: How am I meant to flirt with women in the #MeToo era?
Dear Fifi: How do I return to Ireland after 10 years abroad?
Let’s resident agony aunt Dear Fifi solve all your problems.
Dear Fifi: How do I deal with a family member's shitty political opinions?
Dear Foofers.
Liverpool urged to sign PSG midfielder as Coutinho replacement
After the sale of the Brazil international, the Reds must look for a top quality replacement such as Marco Verratti, says Christian Purslow.
New year, new car? Here's what you should consider before you buy
Some timely advice from The AA’s Barry Aldworth for those considering a move to a ’181-’ reg plate.
'I went from football to finance': How to change your career (and your life) this year
Meet one man who did just that – plus expert advice on making the leap.
Dear Fifi: Was I wrong to ask the new girl I'm seeing to get an STI test?
2018! It’s the year’s first Dear Fifi column.
Dear Fifi: It's quickfire questions!
Merry Christmas from’s resident weekly advice columnist, Dear Fifi.
Dear Fifi: Will it be okay?
Dear Fifi is’s resident advice columnist.
Dear Fifi: How do I adjust to moving to Dublin?
Ho ho ho, Deeeeear Fifi.
Dear Fifi: My mates don't like my boyfriend, what can I do?
Tuesday! It’s Dear Fifi day.
Dear Fifi: I don't feel like my mother likes me. How do I get over that?
Tuesday dinnertime! Dear Fifi time.
Dear Fifi: Why do women go for dickheads?
Dear Foofers.
Wenger advises Pochettino to fight the 'fear' of winning trophies
Arsenal meet Tottenham in the North London derby this weekend.
'It would be a relief for me to play 15 or 20 minutes less in a game'
Bayern Munich are getting by with Robert Lewandowski as their only genuine striker this season.
Dear Fifi: My other half is obsessed with her phone and it's ruining our relationship
Dear Fifi: How do I cope with my feelings of loneliness?
It’s Tuesday, which means Dear Fifi.
7 ways to make your team more diverse and inclusive
How to avoid automatically hiring people like ourselves.
Dear Fifi: I fancy my mate... but he's asked me to be his wingwoman
A rare Dear Fifi drop of advice, where Coppers is actually offered up as a solution to a problem, rather than a significant cause of it.
Dear Fifi: I'm nearly 30 and I don't feel like I've clocked up enough of life's milestones
Boo! It’s Dear Fifi time.
Dear Fifi: My boyfriend's mam won't shut up about the fact I turned him vegan
Dear Fifi is’s resident agony aunt. The cases are real. The rulings are final.