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# Advice

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# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: I cheated on my husband - and honestly? I'm not sorry
Her name is Foofers and she dances on the sand.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: How do I deal with 'imposter syndrome'?
This week’s column tackles feeling overwhelmed by a new job.
# Advice
Arsenal legend a key factor in Fred's Man United move
The Brazil international chose the Red Devils based on the advice of his compatriot and agent Gilberto Silva.
# dearfifi
Dear Fifi: I fear my life is going nowhere
I’ve made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: Am I bad at sex?
The mo’ Fifi, the mo’ problems. Or something. Look, it’s hard coming up with a new subhead every single week.
# Advice
If Limerick don't avoid hype, 'they could be in trouble' - Ex-Galway captain Collins
David Collins feels an All-Ireland victory for Galway this year ‘would be way more impressive’ than their 2017 success.
Home births: 'It was really special to be able to hold him for the very first time in our own living room'
David Caren gives practical advice for Irish expectant dads.
# dear fifi
A love triangle, the ethics of sending nudes and getting over jealousy - it's Dear Fifi
Dearest darling Fiif.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: Is my generation doomed to be miserable?
When I say “Dear” you say “Fifi”.
# dear fifi
Workplace WhatsApp groups, dating ruts, dodgy flatmates and a fear of commitment - this week's Dear Fifi advice column
Dear Foofers.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret
Dear Fifi? On a Tuesday? It’s more likely than you think.
# see you in court
Theresa May says Donald Trump told her to 'sue the EU'
May has revealed the advice that Trump had said could be “too brutal”.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: It’s time for another rapidfire round!
Dear Fifi has missed the entire heat wave.
# Advice
Gardaí and DSPCA warn dog owners to be careful after dog left in hot car found 'in distress'
DSPCA inspectors and gardai were about to break the car windows when the owner returned to his vehicle.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: I’ve got a friend with benefits, but I've started to develop feelings
Dear Fifi is poolside.
# Advice
Having a tough time sleeping in the heat? Here's how to stay cool as temperatures ramp up
A yellow temperature warning is in place nationwide.
# sun glare
Drivers advised to take extra caution during hottest week of the year
Higher temperatures can cause problems for tyres and engines, as well as people who suffer from hay fever.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: I slept with my Dad's mate, what do I do now?
This week, it’s a surprise album drop from Dear Fifi. No wait, it’s actually just another advice column.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: How do I make friends?
Tuesday’s child is full of grace, much like myself.
# Advice
'Now is not the time:' Patrick Kluivert says son is not ready for Barcelona move
The former Barcelona star believes his son Justin needs another stepping stone before thinking about Camp Nou.
# Advice
Guardiola available to call or text '24 hours a day' during World Cup for Stones
The Manchester City defender will be given the chance to seek advice from his club boss in Russia.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: How do I successfully slide into someone's DMs?
Tuesday comes around faster every week, doesn’t it?
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: How do I get the hell over an ex?
Dear Fifi don’t have to cuss in her raps to sell records.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: Embarrassing flashbacks, going bald, Twitter crushes and more - it's your quickfire questions
Tuesday, 6pm, same bat time, same bat channel.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: Is a bad sex life just my cross to bear?
Dear Fifi has not been sacked.
# Advice
Sex, concentration and goals key to World Cup glory, Brazil legend tells Jesus
Romario says that’s how he helped the country clinch the 1994 World Cup.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: How do I come out to my friends as pro-life?
Somehow, it’s bloody Tuesday again.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: Am I an asshole?
When I say “Dear” – you say “Fifi”. Dear!
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: Should I stop banging my housemate?
Dear Fifi, every Tuesday.
# Advice
'Declan Rice should get off Twitter...the kid should keep quiet and get on with his work' - Dunphy
Eamon Dunphy was critical of Rice’s decision to acknowledge his error on social media.
# Advice
Vote again on Brexit, Jurgen Klopp urges
The 50-year-old says the British people were sold short in the original campaign in 2016.
# Advice
Nemanja Matic: Pogba will improve but 'needs to take more responsibility'
Pogba’s Man United teammate is urging him to deliver more for the Premier League side.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: Why do I keep on getting ghosted?
Every Tuesday, Dear Fifi answers one of your questions. This week: ghosting. Not the spooky kind, don’t worry.
# influencers
When is an Instagram post an ad? Advertising body wants to clear up confusion
The ASAI held an event this week for bloggers and influencers.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: I'm gay, I slept with a close (straight) friend and now she's blanking me - what do I do?
Each Tuesday. A problem solved.’s resident advice columnist Dear Fifi.
# bosses from hell
'It was adapt or die': How to manage a difficult boss - and still get your work done
We speak to former employees who made it out the other side of a bad boss horror show.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: It's lots more quickfire questions!
This week, I’m answering lots of your questions quickly.
# Advice
Motorists warned about hailstones as gardaí attend number of crashes
Drivers on motorways in particular have been advised to be vigilant.
# dear fifi
Dear Fifi: What's the f**king point?
Dear Fifi is’s resident advice columnist. Every Tuesday, she tries to help with one of your problems.
# Advice
Wales boss Giggs tells Bale to stay at Real Madrid and win trophies
The star’s international manager believes that he should stay put amid interest from Man United.