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Dear Fifi: I committed major fraud at work - but I stand by what I did
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: I committed major fraud at work - but I stand by what I did

Mar 19th 2019, 6:00 PM 15,305 Views 5 Comments

Can you believe it’s more than halfway through March already?

Dear Fifi: My boyfriend has joined a new political party and I'm struggling to understand it
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: My boyfriend has joined a new political party and I'm struggling to understand it

Mar 12th 2019, 6:00 PM 8,328 Views 0 Comments

It’s time for Fifi to weigh in.

Dear Fifi: I think my boyfriend gave me an STI but he won't admit it
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: I think my boyfriend gave me an STI but he won't admit it

Mar 5th 2019, 6:00 PM 24,891 Views 1 Comment

It’s that time of the week.

New website launched to help explain to children in care why Tusla is in their lives
# Changing Futures
# Changing Futures

New website launched to help explain to children in care why Tusla is in their lives

Mar 5th 2019, 12:39 PM 9,673 Views 20 Comments

The website has been designed by young people with lived experience of the care system.

Fears of getting old and boring, plus when exactly girls become women - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Fears of getting old and boring, plus when exactly girls become women - it's Dear Fifi

Feb 26th 2019, 6:00 PM 8,079 Views 0 Comments

It’s that time of week.

Lescott reveals encouragement from Rooney and Ferdinand to join Man City
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From The42
# Advice

Lescott reveals encouragement from Rooney and Ferdinand to join Man City

Feb 20th 2019, 9:47 PM 10,245 Views 2 Comments

The defender switched from Everton to the Etihad Stadium in 2009.

Fear about 'cancel culture', plus how to cope with seeing a former close friend around - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Fear about 'cancel culture', plus how to cope with seeing a former close friend around - it's Dear Fifi

Feb 19th 2019, 6:00 PM 15,003 Views 0 Comments

It’s Dear Fifi, back at it again.

Dear Fifi: How do I get over not being asked to marry him?
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: How do I get over not being asked to marry him?

Feb 12th 2019, 6:00 PM 10,577 Views 1 Comment

Xin ciao! Dear Fifi is in Vietnam.

Dear Fifi: I'm still a virgin, how can I get it over with?
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: I'm still a virgin, how can I get it over with?

Feb 6th 2019, 10:36 AM 11,025 Views 2 Comments

Back at it again.

Dear Fifi: How do I cope with homesickness?
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: How do I cope with homesickness?

Jan 29th 2019, 6:35 PM 6,079 Views 1 Comment

Foofers in Vietnam!

How do I ask my housemate to stop going to town on himself in the shared shower every day? It's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

How do I ask my housemate to stop going to town on himself in the shared shower every day? It's Dear Fifi

Jan 22nd 2019, 6:00 PM 17,742 Views 5 Comments

And a follow-up on housemate toilet etiquette.

Dealing with a scabby friend and a man who finds his new mot irritating - it's time for Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dealing with a scabby friend and a man who finds his new mot irritating - it's time for Dear Fifi

Jan 15th 2019, 6:00 PM 8,787 Views 2 Comments

We’re getting through January. Little by little.

Secret wedding woes, making pals, a commitment-phobic long-term fella, keeping the friends after a breakup - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Secret wedding woes, making pals, a commitment-phobic long-term fella, keeping the friends after a breakup - it's Dear Fifi

Jan 8th 2019, 6:00 PM 8,135 Views 0 Comments

Farewell to Cambodia and hello this week’s Dear Fifi.

Dear Fifi: I'm worried that my boyfriend enjoys taking drugs too much - what can I do?
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: I'm worried that my boyfriend enjoys taking drugs too much - what can I do?

Jan 1st 2019, 6:00 PM 9,328 Views 0 Comments

To help answer, this is the second week that Dear Fifi called upon the experts at the Rutland Centre.

Dear Fifi: We're all worried about our housemate's drinking - but what can we do?
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: We're all worried about our housemate's drinking - but what can we do?

Dec 25th 2018, 6:00 PM 7,071 Views 0 Comments

To help answer, this week Dear Fifi called upon the experts at the Rutland Centre.

Share the caring duties and taking an active role: Enjoying Christmas with a loved one who has dementia
# Advice
# Advice

Share the caring duties and taking an active role: Enjoying Christmas with a loved one who has dementia

Dec 22nd 2018, 8:30 AM 8,077 Views 9 Comments

The Public Health Agency has issued some advice for those with dementia and their carers this Christmas period.

Explaining a CV gap, the etiquette to refusing a date, and getting too comfortable being single - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Explaining a CV gap, the etiquette to refusing a date, and getting too comfortable being single - it's Dear Fifi

Dec 18th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,178 Views 0 Comments

It’s one week to Christmas, but most importantly, one week until the next Dear Fifi.

Getting f*cked around while dating, bad breath, shifting a mate and being noticed in a group - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Getting f*cked around while dating, bad breath, shifting a mate and being noticed in a group - it's Dear Fifi

Dec 11th 2018, 6:00 PM 9,593 Views 0 Comments

It’s dear Fifi day, everyone.

Dating someone who is extremely online, macking on a shy person and climate change anxiety - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dating someone who is extremely online, macking on a shy person and climate change anxiety - it's Dear Fifi

Dec 4th 2018, 6:00 PM 10,177 Views 0 Comments

It’s that time of week again.

A flaky boyfriend who won't meet the parents, difficult friendship break-ups and skincare regimes - this week's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

A flaky boyfriend who won't meet the parents, difficult friendship break-ups and skincare regimes - this week's Dear Fifi

Nov 27th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,685 Views 0 Comments

And just like that, it’s Dear Fifi time again.

Missing a bad ex but not the nice lad, losing a 30 year friendship, dealing with a wagon at work - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Missing a bad ex but not the nice lad, losing a 30 year friendship, dealing with a wagon at work - it's Dear Fifi

Nov 20th 2018, 6:00 PM 9,265 Views 1 Comment

All the way from Myanmar.

'Being a footballer is a privilege. I think maybe he should focus more on his football'
# Advice
From The42
# Advice

'Being a footballer is a privilege. I think maybe he should focus more on his football'

Nov 19th 2018, 7:44 PM 16,693 Views 0 Comments

Luis Suarez has called on fellow Barcelona star Ousmane Dembele to learn from his team-mates.

Defining cheating, a husband in leggings, travelling, dating a co-worker, pics of the ex  - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Defining cheating, a husband in leggings, travelling, dating a co-worker, pics of the ex - it's Dear Fifi

Nov 13th 2018, 6:00 PM 10,772 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi, dearer Fifi, dearest Fifi.

Dear Fifi: My friend with benefits is messing me around - and unfortunately I'm in love with her
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: My friend with benefits is messing me around - and unfortunately I'm in love with her

Nov 7th 2018, 10:02 AM 8,886 Views 4 Comments

It’s Dear Fifi time.

Dear Fifi: Even after six years, I'm convinced my fiancé isn't over his ex
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From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: Even after six years, I'm convinced my fiancé isn't over his ex

Oct 30th 2018, 6:06 PM 12,435 Views 1 Comment

Tuesday, you know what that means. Well, lots of stuff – but also Dear Fifi.

Dear Fifi: Should I take a big pay cut to stay in the UK with my boyfriend?
# Dearfifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dearfifi

Dear Fifi: Should I take a big pay cut to stay in the UK with my boyfriend?

Oct 23rd 2018, 6:00 PM 7,557 Views 2 Comments

Dear Fifi, every Tuesday, same place, same deal.

'Being able to play football is not enough,' says Juventus star
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From The42
# Advice

'Being able to play football is not enough,' says Juventus star

Oct 17th 2018, 7:27 PM 10,971 Views 9 Comments

Giorgio Chiellini has studied for a degree in economics and a Masters in business administration at Turin University.

Dear Fifi: A not-quite work affair, rebuilding confidence and getting dumped twice in quick succession
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From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: A not-quite work affair, rebuilding confidence and getting dumped twice in quick succession

Oct 16th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,932 Views 0 Comments

It’s that time of the week.

Jeff Hendrick reveals sit-down chat with Roy Keane helped him recover from Wales woe
# Advice
From The42
# Advice

Jeff Hendrick reveals sit-down chat with Roy Keane helped him recover from Wales woe

Oct 12th 2018, 2:06 PM 5,251 Views 2 Comments

The Burnley star has been confirmed as a starter for tomorrow night’s clash with Denmark.

Dear Fifi: Does her cheating mean my relationship was just a lie?
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: Does her cheating mean my relationship was just a lie?

Oct 9th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,428 Views 2 Comments

Dear Fifi, every Tuesday at 6pm.

Dear Fifi: I feel a lot of pressure to have a white wedding
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: I feel a lot of pressure to have a white wedding

Oct 2nd 2018, 6:00 PM 7,897 Views 0 Comments

Dear! Fifi! Dear! Fifi!

Dear Fifi: I hate my sister's new fella
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: I hate my sister's new fella

Sep 25th 2018, 6:00 PM 10,899 Views 0 Comments

Dearest, darling Foofers.

Pogba risks Mourinho's wrath by imploring United to 'attack, attack, attack'
# Advice
From The42
# Advice

Pogba risks Mourinho's wrath by imploring United to 'attack, attack, attack'

Sep 24th 2018, 12:51 AM 6,742 Views 8 Comments

The manager’s tactics will come under the spotlight after the midfielder’s latest comments

The Fear, confidence, a hen party headache and a mate's offensive tattoo - it's Dear Fifi
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

The Fear, confidence, a hen party headache and a mate's offensive tattoo - it's Dear Fifi

Sep 18th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,025 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi is here for you, baby.

Dear Fifi: I'm still waiting for an apology from my ex - is this stupid?
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: I'm still waiting for an apology from my ex - is this stupid?

Sep 11th 2018, 6:00 PM 9,758 Views 3 Comments

A weekly advice column from a wagon who might well be unqualified to answer these questions.

Have you considered switching your mortgage? Tell us what you'd like to know about it
# Mortgages
# Mortgages

Have you considered switching your mortgage? Tell us what you'd like to know about it

Sep 6th 2018, 8:30 PM 9,238 Views 22 Comments

We will put your questions to a consumer expert.

Dear Fifi: I cheated on my husband - and honestly? I'm not sorry
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: I cheated on my husband - and honestly? I'm not sorry

Sep 4th 2018, 6:00 PM 19,753 Views 0 Comments

Her name is Foofers and she dances on the sand.

Dear Fifi: How do I deal with 'imposter syndrome'?
# Dear Fifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dear Fifi

Dear Fifi: How do I deal with 'imposter syndrome'?

Aug 28th 2018, 6:00 PM 13,776 Views 0 Comments

This week’s column tackles feeling overwhelmed by a new job.

Arsenal legend a key factor in Fred's Man United move
# Advice
From The42
# Advice

Arsenal legend a key factor in Fred's Man United move

Aug 22nd 2018, 2:20 PM 12,214 Views 5 Comments

The Brazil international chose the Red Devils based on the advice of his compatriot and agent Gilberto Silva.

Dear Fifi: I fear my life is going nowhere
# Dearfifi
From The Daily Edge
# Dearfifi

Dear Fifi: I fear my life is going nowhere

Aug 21st 2018, 6:00 PM 9,940 Views 0 Comments

I’ve made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to.