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# Advice

All time
'You're passing on your experience. You've been there and been through it all'
Lampard tells Chelsea teenager: Stay at club and you can become world class
Brazil legend urges Neymar to re-sign for Barcelona
Pogba has 'unfinished business' at Man United, says France legend Pires
Dear Fifi: I keep trying - but how do I help my girlfriend with her career?
Dear Fifi: I found my boyfriend on dating apps but he said he was just bored... What do I do?
Dear Fifi: I committed major fraud at work - but I stand by what I did
Dear Fifi: My boyfriend has joined a new political party and I'm struggling to understand it
Dear Fifi: I think my boyfriend gave me an STI but he won't admit it
New website launched to help explain to children in care why Tusla is in their lives
Fears of getting old and boring, plus when exactly girls become women - it's Dear Fifi
Lescott reveals encouragement from Rooney and Ferdinand to join Man City
Fear about 'cancel culture', plus how to cope with seeing a former close friend around - it's Dear Fifi
Dear Fifi: How do I get over not being asked to marry him?
Dear Fifi: I'm still a virgin, how can I get it over with?
Dear Fifi: How do I cope with homesickness?
How do I ask my housemate to stop going to town on himself in the shared shower every day? It's Dear Fifi
Dealing with a scabby friend and a man who finds his new mot irritating - it's time for Dear Fifi
Secret wedding woes, making pals, a commitment-phobic long-term fella, keeping the friends after a breakup - it's Dear Fifi
Dear Fifi: I'm worried that my boyfriend enjoys taking drugs too much - what can I do?
Dear Fifi: We're all worried about our housemate's drinking - but what can we do?
Share the caring duties and taking an active role: Enjoying Christmas with a loved one who has dementia
Explaining a CV gap, the etiquette to refusing a date, and getting too comfortable being single - it's Dear Fifi
Getting f*cked around while dating, bad breath, shifting a mate and being noticed in a group - it's Dear Fifi
Dating someone who is extremely online, macking on a shy person and climate change anxiety - it's Dear Fifi
A flaky boyfriend who won't meet the parents, difficult friendship break-ups and skincare regimes - this week's Dear Fifi
Missing a bad ex but not the nice lad, losing a 30 year friendship, dealing with a wagon at work - it's Dear Fifi
'Being a footballer is a privilege. I think maybe he should focus more on his football'
Defining cheating, a husband in leggings, travelling, dating a co-worker, pics of the ex - it's Dear Fifi
Dear Fifi: My friend with benefits is messing me around - and unfortunately I'm in love with her
Dear Fifi: Even after six years, I'm convinced my fiancé isn't over his ex
Dear Fifi: Should I take a big pay cut to stay in the UK with my boyfriend?
'Being able to play football is not enough,' says Juventus star
Dear Fifi: A not-quite work affair, rebuilding confidence and getting dumped twice in quick succession
Jeff Hendrick reveals sit-down chat with Roy Keane helped him recover from Wales woe
Dear Fifi: Does her cheating mean my relationship was just a lie?
Dear Fifi: I feel a lot of pressure to have a white wedding
Dear Fifi: I hate my sister's new fella
Pogba risks Mourinho's wrath by imploring United to 'attack, attack, attack'
The Fear, confidence, a hen party headache and a mate's offensive tattoo - it's Dear Fifi