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Dear Fifi: I keep trying - but how do I help my girlfriend with her career?
Same time, same place, same Foof.
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Mar 29th 2019, 11:00 AM
Dear Fifi: I found my boyfriend on dating apps but he said he was just bored... What do I do?
It’s that time of the week again. Ring a ding ding.
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Mar 26th 2019, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I committed major fraud at work - but I stand by what I did
Can you believe it’s more than halfway through March already?
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Mar 19th 2019, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I think my boyfriend gave me an STI but he won't admit it
It’s that time of the week.
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Mar 5th 2019, 6:00 PM
Fears of getting old and boring, plus when exactly girls become women - it's Dear Fifi
It’s that time of week.
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Feb 26th 2019, 6:00 PM
Fear about 'cancel culture', plus how to cope with seeing a former close friend around - it's Dear Fifi
It’s Dear Fifi, back at it again.
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Feb 19th 2019, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: How do I get over not being asked to marry him?
Xin ciao! Dear Fifi is in Vietnam.
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Feb 12th 2019, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I'm still a virgin, how can I get it over with?
Back at it again.
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Feb 6th 2019, 10:36 AM
Dear Fifi: How do I cope with homesickness?
Foofers in Vietnam!
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Jan 29th 2019, 6:35 PM
How do I ask my housemate to stop going to town on himself in the shared shower every day? It's Dear Fifi
And a follow-up on housemate toilet etiquette.
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Jan 22nd 2019, 6:00 PM
Secret wedding woes, making pals, a commitment-phobic long-term fella, keeping the friends after a breakup - it's Dear Fifi
Farewell to Cambodia and hello this week’s Dear Fifi.
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Jan 8th 2019, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I'm worried that my boyfriend enjoys taking drugs too much - what can I do?
To help answer, this is the second week that Dear Fifi called upon the experts at the Rutland Centre.
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Jan 1st 2019, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: We're all worried about our housemate's drinking - but what can we do?
To help answer, this week Dear Fifi called upon the experts at the Rutland Centre.
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Dec 25th 2018, 6:00 PM
Getting f*cked around while dating, bad breath, shifting a mate and being noticed in a group - it's Dear Fifi
It’s dear Fifi day, everyone.
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Dec 11th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dating someone who is extremely online, macking on a shy person and climate change anxiety - it's Dear Fifi
It’s that time of week again.
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Dec 4th 2018, 6:00 PM
A flaky boyfriend who won't meet the parents, difficult friendship break-ups and skincare regimes - this week's Dear Fifi
And just like that, it’s Dear Fifi time again.
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Nov 27th 2018, 6:00 PM
Missing a bad ex but not the nice lad, losing a 30 year friendship, dealing with a wagon at work - it's Dear Fifi
All the way from Myanmar.
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Nov 20th 2018, 6:00 PM
Defining cheating, a husband in leggings, travelling, dating a co-worker, pics of the ex - it's Dear Fifi
Dear Fifi, dearer Fifi, dearest Fifi.
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Nov 13th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: My friend with benefits is messing me around - and unfortunately I'm in love with her
It’s Dear Fifi time.
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Nov 7th 2018, 10:02 AM
Dear Fifi: Even after six years, I'm convinced my fiancé isn't over his ex
Tuesday, you know what that means. Well, lots of stuff – but also Dear Fifi.
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Oct 30th 2018, 6:06 PM
Dear Fifi: Should I take a big pay cut to stay in the UK with my boyfriend?
Dear Fifi, every Tuesday, same place, same deal.
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Oct 23rd 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: A not-quite work affair, rebuilding confidence and getting dumped twice in quick succession
It’s that time of the week.
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Oct 16th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: Does her cheating mean my relationship was just a lie?
Dear Fifi, every Tuesday at 6pm.
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Oct 9th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I feel a lot of pressure to have a white wedding
Dear! Fifi! Dear! Fifi!
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Oct 2nd 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I hate my sister's new fella
Dearest, darling Foofers.
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Sep 25th 2018, 6:00 PM
The Fear, confidence, a hen party headache and a mate's offensive tattoo - it's Dear Fifi
Dear Fifi is here for you, baby.
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Sep 18th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I'm still waiting for an apology from my ex - is this stupid?
A weekly advice column from a wagon who might well be unqualified to answer these questions.
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Sep 11th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I cheated on my husband - and honestly? I'm not sorry
Her name is Foofers and she dances on the sand.
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Sep 4th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: How do I deal with 'imposter syndrome'?
This week’s column tackles feeling overwhelmed by a new job.
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Aug 28th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I fear my life is going nowhere
I’ve made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to.
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Aug 21st 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: Am I bad at sex?
The mo’ Fifi, the mo’ problems. Or something. Look, it’s hard coming up with a new subhead every single week.
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Aug 14th 2018, 7:03 PM
A love triangle, the ethics of sending nudes and getting over jealousy - it's Dear Fifi
Dearest darling Fiif.
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Aug 7th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: Is my generation doomed to be miserable?
When I say “Dear” you say “Fifi”.
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Jul 31st 2018, 6:00 PM
Workplace WhatsApp groups, dating ruts, dodgy flatmates and a fear of commitment - this week's Dear Fifi advice column
Dear Foofers.
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Jul 24th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: How do I deal with people who just really f*cking annoy me?
Back at it again.
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Jul 10th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I’ve got a friend with benefits, but I've started to develop feelings
Dear Fifi is poolside.
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Jun 26th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: I slept with my Dad's mate, what do I do now?
This week, it’s a surprise album drop from Dear Fifi. No wait, it’s actually just another advice column.
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Jun 19th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: How do I successfully slide into someone's DMs?
Tuesday comes around faster every week, doesn’t it?
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Jun 5th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: How do I get the hell over an ex?
Dear Fifi don’t have to cuss in her raps to sell records.
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May 29th 2018, 6:00 PM
Dear Fifi: Embarrassing flashbacks, going bald, Twitter crushes and more - it's your quickfire questions
Tuesday, 6pm, same bat time, same bat channel.
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May 22nd 2018, 6:00 PM
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