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# dear fifi

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Dear Fifi: I’ve got a friend with benefits, but I've started to develop feelings
Dear Fifi: I slept with my Dad's mate, what do I do now?
Dear Fifi: How do I make friends?
Dear Fifi: How do I successfully slide into someone's DMs?
Dear Fifi: How do I get the hell over an ex?
Dear Fifi: Embarrassing flashbacks, going bald, Twitter crushes and more - it's your quickfire questions
Dear Fifi: Is a bad sex life just my cross to bear?
Dear Fifi: How do I come out to my friends as pro-life?
Dear Fifi: Am I an asshole?
Dear Fifi: Should I stop banging my housemate?
Dear Fifi: Why do I keep on getting ghosted?
Dear Fifi: I'm gay, I slept with a close (straight) friend and now she's blanking me - what do I do?
Dear Fifi: It's lots more quickfire questions!
Dear Fifi: What's the f**king point?
Dear Fifi: How do I become more confident talking to the opposite sex?
Dear Fifi: Is it weird to be single at 35?
Dear Fifi: How do you deal with the anxiety of social media?
Dear Fifi: How do I get my arse in gear after college?
Dear Fifi: It's quickfire questions!
Dear Fifi: I'm 26 years old and have never been on a date or had a relationship
Dear Fifi: Do I have a responsibility to help my boyfriend to come out?
Dear Fifi: Do I have a moral obligation to expose my friend's affair?
Dear Fifi: How am I meant to flirt with women in the #MeToo era?
Dear Fifi: How do I return to Ireland after 10 years abroad?
Dear Fifi: How do I deal with a family member's shitty political opinions?
Dear Fifi: Was I wrong to ask the new girl I'm seeing to get an STI test?
Dear Fifi: It's quickfire questions!
Dear Fifi: Will it be okay?
Dear Fifi: How do I adjust to moving to Dublin?
Dear Fifi: My mates don't like my boyfriend, what can I do?
Dear Fifi: I don't feel like my mother likes me. How do I get over that?
Dear Fifi: Why do women go for dickheads?
Dear Fifi: My other half is obsessed with her phone and it's ruining our relationship
Dear Fifi: How do I cope with my feelings of loneliness?
Dear Fifi: I fancy my mate... but he's asked me to be his wingwoman
Dear Fifi: I'm nearly 30 and I don't feel like I've clocked up enough of life's milestones
Dear Fifi: I'm a non-believer - and I think I'm falling for a staunch Catholic
Dear Fifi: My boyfriend's mam won't shut up about the fact I turned him vegan
Dear Fifi: Why is it not okay to shame people over their weight?
Dear Fifi: I'm still in my first ever relationship - am I settling? Is this it?